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Marriage, Covid, and Japan

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The last year has been a blur.  ...make that the last two years.  Who am I kidding? Life is a blur. I'm going to be pushing 40 soon. Huh? Didn't I just graduate from college? Weird. OK....let's see...last I updated, I believe I had announced that I had quit the shipyard and was going to school for editing. Since then.... - Covid happened - I finished school - I rekindled my work-relationship with the poker media company -- PokerNews . - I got married to my now wife, Ayumi.  - I obtained Japanese residency.  As I write this, I am quarantined in a tiny Japanese business hotel room. Covid has, of course, put a damper on international travel, but it is a straight pain in the ass to get into Japan right now. The second half of yesterday was one of the most unpleasant days of my life. I'll get back to that.  The big elephant in the room -- yes, I got married. For anyone that doesn't know, I met Ayumi in early 2018 during a work trip in Japan. We began dating and ...

Anxiety, Poker and Optimism

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It amazes me how adaptable we are as humans. Studies have shown that most people have a general "baseline" of happiness and, regardless of what happens in their life, tend to return to that baseline. I'm too lazy to find the exact reference, but if memory serves, this study involved two people - one who had lost a leg (or legs) and the other had won the lottery. Initially, as you might imagine, the person who lost their leg(s) experienced a large decrease in happiness, while the lottery winner experienced an immediate increase in happiness. Duh. What's interesting, however, is that over time, both returned to their baseline level of contentedness. How can this be? The thought of losing a leg and never being able to walk or run (or jump on a trampoline!) sounds devastating to me. Conversely, just thinking about the amount of freedom/options I'd be afforded by winning the lottery makes me giddy. I suppose I've been thinking about this phenomenon as a result ...

What I've Been Up To Lately...

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Over the years, my presence on social media has gradually declined. Probably from painstakingly annoying (college days/early 20's) down to virtually nothing as of late. Having said that, I have toyed with the notion of blogging to an open audience with some regularity for a while now. (I say "open audience" because I do have a personal blog that I use for goal-setting, venting, etc) Why? Because I enjoy writing, mostly. I do, admittedly, have a poker blog that I never really got going...but I'd rather have a blog that isn't restricted to any particular topic. It can be fun to look back on life and remember what the hell you were thinking at any given point in time. I also want to get used to "putting myself out there." I don't exactly intend to write anything overly political/controversial/incendiary, but over the years I've been pretty adamant about avoiding situations that would open myself up to criticism. I'm reminded of a certain quo...